We have all been there, where sitting around a table at a holiday with family, a controversial conversation is brought up. Others may agree with the topic and some may definitely not. If guest (A) brings up a topic that makes other feel uncomfortable, guest (B) may use the “manner” part of Grice’s maxims of conversation and say that the topic of the conversation is not welcome or appropriate for the situation. Grice’s maxim of conversation points out that conversations are cooperative. He proposes that every speaker of every language operates with several default assumptions about how conversations may work. These default assumptions include one principle- The cooperative principle and several other Maxims of Conversation. They are not the rules of good communication. “A deliberate deviation from these expectations can be used to communicate extra elements of meaning”. A speaker may communicate by obeying the maxims or by breaking them, as long as the hearer is able to recognize which strategy is being used.


